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grillbert's avatar

i have a very high value girlfriend that i love very much :3

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Onurcan Yasar's avatar

I would like to give an other outlook on this topic

Relationships are a market. Everyone can make offers. Most men give offers like I would be willing to sleep with you. Most women refuse this kind of offers. Women offer communication. Basically I like you enough to communicate with you. Perhaps from there it will go to a place of sexual emotional relationship exchange

Incels as you define it people who have difficulties entering the market. Either they don’t communicate in the case of male and female incels or they make offers like I will sleep with you that will get refused 99% of the time. Women often refuse communication as well. And this is a big issue for people who shouldn’t be incels because they are likely not that low in terms of market value. The problem is not the refusal of communication as such, as communication even can be sometimes dangerous or unpleasant for women, but the communication won’t take place just because people don’t find good places to communicate. In my opinion this is the huge market failure in dating. Incels don’t find avenues to communicate

There are people who should be incels. Basically people who abuse partners. But they don’t suffer from the market failure. They instead sell a rotten product on the market. And you can’t know from a personality test eg. big five who is in this group

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